Lynn Girton, 69, never came out as a lesbian to her parents. She never even heard of the term lesbian growing up in a Christian household in Ohio. She dated men, because that was what she says was supposed to do.
Then at a summer job, she met Pat Freedman.
"We fell in love, and we did not know what that meant," Girton says. "We just wanted to spend the rest of our lives together."
Both women didn't tell anyone. Their parents were in the dark about who they were, and in a sense, Girton and Freedman were too.